Moving in to a new house with friends or as newlyweds requires creativity and often compromise to let your separate styles merge to create a look that you both enjoy and feel at home in. The good news is that opposing forces often create some of the most interesting and satisfying end results – so start by having an open mind and agreeing on a budget. It’s also important to prioritise your needs above your wants. There is no rush to do all the decorating at once; allow your space to evolve over time as you settle into your new lifestyle.

The big question is how do you mix different periods and styles of furniture and décor to make it all work in the space and create a unique look? In truth, there are very few pure decorating and design techniques. Most styles are a blend of several different eras and periods, and are usually created when designers (or homemakers) combine elements of certain periods or fashions into a space.

So here are some tips on how to create your own eclectic mix and effortlessly fashion a home that appears coherent and unified.

Stick to a small colour palette

Repeating the same colour throughout your space will bring it all together. You can add a bit of tension to your space with something like a cobalt blue accent rug or a stylish piece of art.

Select a quirky accent piece

If you have a piece of furniture that just doesn’t look like the rest of your belongings, don’t try to hide it. Draw attention to it by using it as the focal point of your space and building the rest of the room around it. This is a great way to turn something that normally wouldn’t fit into the wow factor. For example, a family heirloom such as an antique drinks trolley could be a perfect statement piece in a living room.

Match your wood finishes

Keep your wood tones consistent to tie your pieces together. You’ll be amazed how two totally contrasting periods of furniture can pair perfectly together when they are stained the same shade of wood. For example, a book case to match your dining room table.

Remove the clutter

Sometimes the best approach is to keep fewer pieces and enjoy them in a simpler setting. You need to be strict about selecting just two or three pieces you couldn’t live without, and donate the rest to your favourite charity or other friends starting out in a new home.

Unify form

The success of your room will result from the use and repetition of shape or silhouette. Look for common elements. For example, if you have a sofa that is too curvy for your husband or house mate’s taste, simplify it with a solid fabric that will help set the tone for other traditional shapes. Enhance the space by repeating the curved line through the use of art or ornaments. It can bring a room together and keep decor from appearing scattered.

At the end of the day, the most important thing is to feel relaxed and at home, so make sure you’re both happy with the result, and add new décor items over time to enhance the space.